Wedding planning is not rocket science but there's a lot to do
and that's why it can become stressful. To survive and thrive
in the build up to your big day keep a sense of perspective, stay
organised, delegate what tasks you can and never lose sight of why
you are planning this fabulous celebration in the first place (so
take note of the last tip: I'm told it has saved
relationships!)
MONEY MANAGEMENT Plan only for the type of
wedding you can afford. Accept what you've got to spend and always
shop with this in mind. Create your perfect
wedding, not an international footballers dream day. Create a day
that will say something about who you are, your shared values and
your lifestyle
BE ORGANIZED It's the key to successful and
stress free wedding planning.
PRIORITIZE Don't waste time getting carried
away with the detail of your day until you have put in place the
key elements: where and when you'll be married and how much you can
spend. Do refer to our 'Big 5' Checklist for the newly engaged'
blog.
PRESENT A UNITED FRONT Create your day together
and present a united front to your families. Leave some room for
family input - especially if they are contributing financially.
RESPECT & COMPROMISE When drawing up your
guest list, be sensitive to the desires and expectations of each
other and your families. Respect the point of view of others and
listen, even if you eventually reject their ideas. Be prepared to
negotiate and compromise.
DELEGATE Behind every blooming bride and
gorgeous groom is a fabulous and efficient team, so delegate what
you can to friends and family who have skills in areas you need
help with. If someone can bake - they can do the cake.
BRIDESMAIDS & BEST MAN Have a reliable best
man and chief bridesmaid. If your closest friends are not
competent, confident, reliable individuals, give them something
else to do!
HIRING & FIRING Do not hire anyone or
anything until you have seen or sampled their wares. Get
every detail in writing. Before signing a contract ask: "is
this your best price?" And read the small print: are taxes and
service charges included - if not then budget the extra 20-30% that
can cost you.
KEEP COOL, CALM & COLLECTED - especially
with your nearest and dearest. Don't alienate anyone you'll
need later on (I'm thinking mother-in-law!).
WEDDING FREE ZONES Have wedding free zones in
your home(s) and wedding free evenings with your intended. Then
you'll remember why you are doing this…
For more help with your big day don't forget our range of
wedding plannning smartphone apps and books available via our Boutique.
Happy Wedding Planing!
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© Sarah Haywood, 2012